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Thursday, 11 June 2009

  • Luke 8 ReJesus Yourself!



    There was a deeper reason why I asked the question of Luke 8 in my recent blog.

    I asked who you identified most with in the passage.

    LUKE 8


    Thank you to the brave/interested ones who answered.



    I have recently been challenged about how I identify with this passage as well.

    I have often identified with those that have been healed by Jesus- because on many levels on various occasions I have too been healed.



    I am being invigorated to identify myself with how Jesus must have felt in this passage and others in the New Testament.

    To to ReJesus myself as two Hirsch and Frost might say.





    ".. M.Scott Peck in Further Along the Road Less Traveled recounted the episode when Baptist theologian Harvey Cox was addressing a convention of Christian healers- pastors, therapists, nurses, doctors- that Peck was attending.  During his presentation, Cox retold the story of Luke 8 of Jesus raising Jairus's daughter from the dead...

    ...Cox asked his audience of six hundred Christian healers and therapists to indicate which of the characters in the story they most strongly identified with. 

    The bleeding woman?

    The anxious father?

    The curious crowd?

    Or Jesus?

    What Cox found that around a hundred could relate to the desperate woman;

    several hundred identified with Jairus, whose daughter was dying;

    the majority identified with the perplexed group standing by.

    And six- yes, six- people felt they could identify with Jesus.

    Peck's point in recounting this story experience was to point out that there is something seriously wrong with Christianity when only one in every hundred Christians can identify with Jesus.  Here was a story about Jesus the healer, told to healers, but none of them identified with Jesus.  Have we made him so divine, so otherworldly that we cannot connect with him anymore?  Peck suggests that this leads to the excuse that we can't really be expected to follow Jesus because we perceive ourselves way down here and Jesus way up there, beyond identification.  Say's Peck,

    "That is exactly what we're supposed to do!  We're supposed to identify with Jesus, act like Jesus, be like Jesus.  That is what Christianity is supposed to be about:  the imitation of Christ.""

    (Excerpt taken from ReJesus- A Wild Messiah for a Missional Church
    by Michael Frost and Alan Hirsch pg 18)


Monday, 08 June 2009

  • What is the Church?




    What is the Church?



    Original Word:   eÍkklhsiða

    a gathering of citizens called out from their homes into some public place, an assembly
    1. an assembly of the people convened at the public place of the council for the purpose of deliberating
    2. the assembly of the Israelites
    3. any gathering or throng of men assembled by chance, tumultuously
    4. in a Christian sense
      1. an assembly of Christians gathered for worship in a religious meeting
      2. a company of Christian, or of those who, hoping for eternal salvation through Jesus Christ, observe their own religious rites, hold their own religious meetings, and manage their own affairs, according to regulations prescribed for the body for order's sake
      3. those who anywhere, in a city, village, constitute such a company and are united into one body
      4. the whole body of Christians scattered throughout the earth
      5. the assembly of faithful Christians already dead and received into heaven

    In Ancient Greece the more common use of the world Ekklesia, was for an assembly of people.

    In the book Pagan Christianity?  the authors say this of the word:


    "Strikingly, nowhere in the New Testament do we find the terms church (ekklesia) used to refer to as a building."

    To the ears of a first-century Christian, calling an ekklesia (church) a building would have been like calling your wife a condominium or your mother a skyscraper!"

    The first recorded use of the word ekklesia, refers to a Christian meeting place was penned around AD 190 by Cement Alexandria (150-215).  Clement was also the first person to use the phrase "go to church"-which would have been a foreign thought to the first century believers.  (You can not go to something you are!)
    (page 11 & 12)


    The authors goes on to tell us that in all of the 114 places the word Ekklesia is used in the New Testament that it always points to an assembly and that the word church was originally derived from the word kuriakon which has the meaning of, "belonging to the Lord."


    In their book ReJesus Hirsch and Frost say this about the term Ekklesia.

    "Most dictionaries will tell you that ecclesia literally means 'the gathering of the called-out ones'.  It comes from two words, ek meaning 'out' and kaleo, meaning 'to call'.  But in it's original usage an ecclesia was not just an assembly or a gathering, as many suppose.  If that's all Paul wanted to convey, he could have used agora and panegyris  as well as heorte, koinon, thiasos, synagoge and synago, all of which refer to an assembly. 

    The word ecclesia had a political aspect to it.  In fact, it wasn't a religious term, and neither was its use limited to a religious gathering.  In Paul's time, an ecclesia was a gathering of the elders of a community.   In smaller villages and towns across Judea, local elders would gather regularly to discuss and deliberate over a variety of social and political dilemma's facing the community....

    ....It brought wisdom to the village. It helped the village be a better village. 

    ... How interesting that Paul takes this term and Christianizes it for his fledgling communities.  Of course, he adds to it the idea of ecclesia being a body, striving for unity and diversity."


    I love this quote from the above authors, because it takes us back to the purpose of the New Testament church, to see the spread of the gospel and to radically impact their local communities for the glory of God.


    How then do we so easily interchange the word to day between a body of people and a bricks and mortar place of worship?

    How did the translation get lost along the way?

    Was it due to the fact that when the bible was translated and printed that 'church' as the building was already firmly established 'culturally'?


  • Who do you relate to?


    When you read this account in Luke 8 who do you find yourself relating too?

    There is a purpose to this exercise.....



    His Touch
     40-42On his return, Jesus was welcomed by a crowd. They were all there expecting him. A man came up, Jairus by name. He was president of the meeting place. He fell at Jesus' feet and begged him to come to his home because his twelve-year-old daughter, his only child, was dying. Jesus went with him, making his way through the pushing, jostling crowd.

     43-45In the crowd that day there was a woman who for twelve years had been afflicted with hemorrhages. She had spent every penny she had on doctors but not one had been able to help her. She slipped in from behind and touched the edge of Jesus' robe. At that very moment her hemorrhaging stopped. Jesus said, "Who touched me?"

       When no one stepped forward, Peter said, "But Master, we've got crowds of people on our hands. Dozens have touched you."

     46Jesus insisted, "Someone touched me. I felt power discharging from me."

     47When the woman realized that she couldn't remain hidden, she knelt trembling before him. In front of all the people, she blurted out her story—why she touched him and how at that same moment she was healed.

     48Jesus said, "Daughter, you took a risk trusting me, and now you're healed and whole. Live well, live blessed!"

     49While he was still talking, someone from the leader's house came up and told him, "Your daughter died. No need now to bother the Teacher."

     50-51Jesus overheard and said, "Don't be upset. Just trust me and everything will be all right." Going into the house, he wouldn't let anyone enter with him except Peter, John, James, and the child's parents.

     52-53Everyone was crying and carrying on over her. Jesus said, "Don't cry. She didn't die; she's sleeping." They laughed at him. They knew she was dead.

     54-56Then Jesus, gripping her hand, called, "My dear child, get up." She was up in an instant, up and breathing again! He told them to give her something to eat. Her parents were ecstatic, but Jesus warned them to keep quiet. "Don't tell a soul what happened in this room."




    Be sure to let me know as there is a purpose to the question!
  • Being in the right place......

    Last week I took a 22 hour flight from Sydney Australia via Abu Dabi to arrive in Manchester about 7 am.

    As I stood haggard with 3 of my children at the baggage claim I was people watching. I spied one woman who had taken extreme care in how she dressed that morning unlike myself who was feeling every second of the trip.

    The lady had some how managed to do her make up and hair, and was looking gorgeous even after a long haul flight. However by her body language I could tell so much more about her than I could her clothes. She was becoming increasingly impatient, worried, frustrated at her lack of luggage.

    As I walked further down to collect my stroller, I heard someone approach from behind me. Her high bling laden heels tap tap tapped on the floor as she approached the man in charge of stroller collection.

    As she opened her mouth to ask him about her luggage I was knocked over by what came out of her mouth. She let 'rip' as us Aussies say, with a whole host of language that would make an outback shearer blush.

    I was gobsmacked.

    As I watched the scene further unfold I saw her go to ask somebody else about her luggage.

    It turned out she was standing on the wrong conveyor belt and her luggage was coming out on the opposite side of the room.

    This morning as I regain some of my senses and jet lag lifts I wonder if sometimes as a Christian I am like this.

    We can dress ourselves up in all kinds of attire as Christians. Our ministries, our worship, our churches, can become the external 'blings' of Christendom for everyone to see.

    We may be presented in our Sunday best physically and symbolically, yet our body language and our speech maybe saying more about what is happening on the inside of us than we would often care to admit.

    And then, having all of that together and looking fine, we find ourselves becoming increasingly frustrated and irritated at God not showing up where we are...... but rather is at the opposite end of the building with those other people. We too may just be in the wrong spot.

    Where are we standing today? In a place where appearance matters or where our words actions and behavior reflect Jesus? Are we impatient when God does not show up? Or are we ever seeking where we should be standing?


  • 10 tips for setting healthy boundaries


    It has come to my attention over the past couple of years that I have not been very good at setting boundaries, both for myself and for others in my life.




    Some of it this has been shown to me as a result of behaviors I have seen within myself- not a pretty thing to see at all and one that we are forced to make choices about- deal with it, or die a slow painful emotional death to our own tragic need to control.

    Some of it has been shown to me as a result of behaviors I have seen in others and their need to control- a hard thing to see because it requires some kind of action on our part.  Action that we can not control the responses of and that have a wider implication than just ourselves.





    Naturally, I am not a very good boundary setter.   I have in the past been too easy to manipulate as I am a typical people pleaser who wants others to think kindly of her.

    So often I would abandon what I felt to be a boundary just so that I could have the approval of another. 

    Then I would find myself feeling resentful, because it had felt like something had been stolen from me.  And in essence it had.  Somebody was manipulating/controlling me, in order to get something for themselves.  Sometimes this behavior was subtle and sometimes it was incredibly obvious.

    But either way I would give in to it- so that I could be liked, or so I would not rock the boat.



    It also allowed me to feel like a victim and a martyr.   A position that I got used to for many years, but one that now makes me feel a little sick to my stomach.








    So here are 10 tips I have learned in the last little while about setting Boundaries. 

    Oh and when I say learned- they are things I am actually now internalizing!






    1.

    Saying no does not make you a bad person or a rotten Christian. But how you say it can make a big difference.

    2.

    Be kind to yourself and know what you can and can't handle- realistically.

    3.

    Realize that some journeys are for other people to walk alone and nothing you can do can actually make that any easier for them.

    4.

    Listen to your body, your mind and your Spirit and set boundaries according to your health in all of these areas.  Some days you maybe stronger and more able than others.


    5.


    There is a difference between supporting someone on their journey and being 'forced' to walk that path for them.

    6.


    Healthy friendships do not require manipulation in order to gain something from you. They do however require authentic and real conversations that reflect what you can and can't give someone.


    7.

    Do be careful to do things with right motives.  Be truthful for your reasons about the boundaries you are setting.  Do not become selfish in your boundary setting or use this as way of controlling or manipulating others.  Be generous in a healthy manner.


    8.


    Do not allow others to sway you with manipulative speech and emotional pressure. If you do it wont be long before you feel like you are loosing pieces of your soul. 


    9.


    As one wise friend told me recently there is a difference between causing offense and people taking offense- learn to spot the difference.

    10.

    Often people can only take from you what you allow them to have. Do not become the victim of your own life.



    EDIT-
    BONUS ONE- I thought of when in the bath!

    Sacrificial love is a very different thing to the issue at hand. 
    It is done out of the depths of your heart for another, not stolen or taken from you.

    Never be afraid to love or serve sacrificially!




    What other tips can you share with me about how you set boundaries in your life?

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